Or He bestows both males and females, and He makes barren whom He wishes; indeed, He is the All-Knowing, the Capable.
No one has the right to select his parents or children, as explained in verse 16: 78. Allah bestows male children and female children. The believer who understands from the Three-Time Knowledge—Adhikr—that the Three-Time Knower Allah is Impartial and He is capable of doing anything beyond cause and reason can alter his fate with Adhikr—Allah’s Permission. Likewise, He can fulfill all his ambitions, including the selection of male and female children. Such a believer alone is utilizing Adhikr as the Ticket to Paradise and Mouedath as well as the Safeguard against all calamities, disasters, and Hellfire, as explained in verses 5: 48 and 16: 125. As explained in verse 2: 98, the Lord has taught through His Messenger that the believer who has self-control can select for himself to have male or female children. See explanation 12: 53; 21: 89 and 37: 105.